It’s crazy how the mind works.
It dances around the problem almost like it’s trying to never get caught.
There are so many symptoms that once you realize what to look for you’ll see them popping up everywhere.
What’s more is when you recognize what the symptoms mean, you’ll finally be able to solve the real problem.
Irritation, frustration, bothered with other people.
These are symptoms.
It sounds so strange but let me tell you this short story to show you exactly what’s happening.
There was a guy who was annoyed with his wife for the mess she didn’t clean up.
This wasn’t just once.
This was an ongoing thing.
He loved his wife.
She was nice, kind, and in his words, “hot.”
But these are small choices. Small purchases. Small noises were all distracting him.
About 2 months later he realized one day that he was easily overlooking those annoyances and that they were even beginning to improve almost on their own.
He noticed that it was almost interesting that the things that used to annoy him were somewhat making him smile.
This is crazy weird but do you know what it was?
He started living his purpose.
How does this even relate!!??
I see it all of the time.
So ask yourself.
What’s “off” right now?
Am I living my purpose?
Am I taking action on my vision?
Why or why not?
Anyways, those little irritations that are taking up huge mental bandwidth can be solved.
It’s fascinating and challenging but at the same time quite simple.
It’s called Futuring™.
P.S. I know it might not be all of your faults and that your spouse has some leveling up to do as well. Don’t worry about that just yet. A misaligned spouse can definitely sabotage everything you’ve been building. But let’s start off with a quick look at what’s going on under the hood and we’ll take it from there.